Many times over the years, people brought in copies of emails (or phone records, etc.) from their ex or soon to be ex as part of their interview for their custody evaluation. Their hope was that the information in the emails or other documents would make the other person look bad.
They never seemed to think that what they were doing –spying — was wrong. They always had an excuse for what they did. However, it doesn’t matter. The fact that they violated the privacy of the other person was inappropriate. I’m not talking about emails between the two of them. I’m talking about private emails to other people – invading another’s account.
Not only is this type of activity immoral, it is also illegal. Just recently, an Austin man was arrested and charged with unlawful interception of electronic communication which is a felony. If convicted he faces up to 20 years in prison and a $10,000 fine.
Following your ex (stalking) is also a crime. No matter your reasoning, these things should not be done. Even if you think you’re protecting your child by your activities, if you get caught and go to prison, who will protect your child then?
It’s been my experience that those who participate in these type of behaviors are usually very controlling individuals and more interested in causing problems for their ex or keeping tabs on them for their own reasons, rather than anything to do with their children.
My advice: Just don’t do it.
Originally posted at rhondahopkins.com. This article may have been amended to fit the needs of this site.
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